FS great name btw!! I haven't consulted any solicitors, but will look at it, to see what my rights are. I know why he is asking for the marriage cert, he has asked for a copy and he needs the original. I think he thinks I know misreading that I will crackdown because I don't want to d. Not today I won't be. Fathers day is now a sticky situation, I will email him to offer a couple of hours. Think he knows my boundary now and no more sleeping together. You are right I can't stop him introducing ow, but he wants a full day and night on my weekend, to introduce ow and her kids. My mind is just blown at this, he has already told the children and asked did they want to stay of course they said yes without asking me to give up my day. Of course ow and her children will be staying at his house, I wouldn't want to put any child in that situation. I asked him to introduce in a neutral space for an hr or two. Wh and ow have spent irl a total of 19 days together. If I did that wh would go berserk and rightly so in my opinion. This is a ldr and it feels as if everything is right here, right now. Wh has said he had sent pictures to her of our children that I have never seen, she is part of his life, so therefore part of theirs. All I get is ow has spent thousands to come and see me and I have a family outing planned and I will have my children. I have not mentioned anything to my children of had mouthed there dad. Are you saying I should agree to this meeting. I told him I can't stop him doing whatever on his days.