Can I ask, because I have gone complete no contact, I am worried he will turn up at the house, how do I deal with that? I cant refuse him entry but I don't want conflict and that is what will happen
Hold eye contact. Listen to him. Say very little. Validate. do this as long as you are comfortable.
At some point, ask him to leave. If he refuses, you leave.
How long ago did he move out?
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