Even though I want to send him a message that just says if you had looked at what I suggested we wouldnt be like this. I know he doesnt care, it's all about him and his wants and I am The unreasonable one.
Right, you don't want to do that for the very reasons you cite.
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Really want to go I to fix it more, which is me apologising and giving in, but not this time
DB'ing is counter-intuitive, it's not doing what "feels" right and doing what doesn't feel right. But it is what works. All the apologizing and begging and pleading and such would just make you look pathetic, weak and unattractive to him. It's human nature to want what we can't have. You can't have him so you want him. He knows he has you so he doesn't want you. You need to flip that script.
