Ok thanks for the advice, will find it and send a copy. Nothing else. Even though I want to send him a message that just says if you had looked at what I suggested we wouldnt be like this. I know he doesnt care, it's all about him and his wants and I am The unreasonable one.

Really want to go I to fix it more, which is me apologising and giving in, but not this time, if I had done this fro. The beginning instead of being g reasonable and nice, tho wh says he is being nice by allowing me to stay in the house and only see the children eow and 1 evening a week.