You did the MC. You got it done. You got your answers and folks here have helped you decode it. Now is the time for getting your ball$ back together. Time for decisive action and not worrying about consequences. I co-sign everything AS has just said in the post above. The worst scenario is that she'll D you. But you knew that all along. You can't nice her back. You can't make her change her mind. She is trying to let you down slowly. You go this path, you will have another year or more of agony. Make decisive moves now and move ahead with your life. Go re-read what I wrote about Txhubby. I wish he was still around to give his take, but he suffered for 2 years before he woke up. You have the chance right now to not go through that. Just make a decision to stay in the house, communicate it to her, and let her figure it out.
