(((exquisitetobe))) - I agree with the others. You did the exact right thing and I'm very happy for your family that your ex has stepped up and done his job both as a father and as a cop.

Messing around with a bit of pot is one thing but getting into anything harder, especially in company of others who enable is a road to ruin. And just because you live in a small town it doesn't mean anything.

I'm personally grateful that I never had to deal with anything like this but can understand as both a parent and as a single parent at least a touch of how much you are feeling torn, dissapointed in yourself and your daughter, frustrated and exhausted.

Hopefully your ex and perhaps other professionals can assist you in figuring out the best way to deal with this.

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