Good points. Why do I feel I should move out? She should! Guess feeling a bit defeated at the moment. Actually this came up a month ago and I flatly refused even though her logic was sound. "You will be close to work" she said. I said I'd be crushed if I couldn't see my kids every day. Never came up again.
Not sure if I'm willing yet to bring up her seeking help. Maybe if things got better because it's certainly a boundary that can no longer be crossed.
Yeah, I've certainly messed up a few of Sandi's rules. I vow to start immediately, they are good advices. Feel energised to keep at it.
