Uni it makes every bit of sense for you to stay. Granted the limbo and the in-house separation is going to make you emotionally screwy. But you have to get comfortable with yourself with it. You have to get comfortable with being quiet to yourself and around her. Almost stoic. It makes sense for you to stay because you are not the one who's leaving she is. Everyone here is right they try to push us out of their lives so that they can stage and benefit from it don't allow it. People who leave do exactly that they leave they don't tell you to leave because they want to leave. Its manipulation. Completely blaming you for all the problems in the marriage is also manipulation. it's also a double standard and they won't see any of this even if you tell them out right. They have to realize it on their own through time and space. Just don't allow them to manipulate you.
