You did the right thing by getting her dad involved. Actually, I think you've been doing the right thing all along. Again, you're NOT a failure.
Just be careful. A lot of times forbidding something will make them want it more.
Keep us updated.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
