As for now, I agree with the positions of both Steve and Neffer.
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I think it is funny that she was moving out 5/18, here we are 6/19. That speaks volumes right there!
This also came up in the conversation. I shared how I had been waiting and wondering for a year and a half since she announced that discarded plan. She seemed perplexed.
Maika, All interpretations are selective. Given the bigger picture of Ws action and the ability and willingness to have this conversation, I view the transaction as a positive step. I'm not willing to accept it as overly optimistic, delusional dissonance. Knowing this person, in the past, it would have turned into a small battle when her feelings felt challenged. This was not the case. LH19, I don't disagree that distance and time would most likely expedite the process. At some point it may come to this.
Either way, it doesn't matter. I have committed to a plan and it was never contingent upon this conversation.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
