I am very interested to hear more about this Mort course. I get very mixed messages from my wife on needing space. She wants me to continue to be her partner, i.e. cook dinner and do the dished WITH her, other chores TOGETHER, and put the kids to bed. When she says that she wants space, she seems to suggest no romantic pursuit or manufacturing family events like outings and vacations.
She says that she is not mad at me and isn't resentful. She just doesn't have romantic feelings. Man I don't want to lose her!
Destroyd - if you google his name you can find his site, don't want to post a link to a competing program here. I'm only in the beginning of his course but I think there is some helpful stuff. A lot similar to DB but some is different. I think you have to critically think and apply what would work best for your sitch.
Speaking of your sitch, I've been following your thread and I really feel for you - I haven't commented because I have no good advice. I'm out here flailing just like you, looking for something to turn my marriage around. I know there is no magic action to make it happen. I'm just trying to use all available resources to put my best effort forward for one last chance.