Two days ago I discovered that she lost 1 of her part time jobs. She told me it was my fault. LOL. We are on our second month of divorce with very little interaction. I guess I have Jedi mind tricks to persuade her employers to let her go thru the ether. And yes, her honeymoon is over as OM is back with his steady woman. Her fantasy is collapsing.
IHCLACS thanks for the info. Man there sure are alot of disorders out there. I did get a chance to talk to her therapist, as he was treating both of us, and after pages and pages of notes on her behavior at home I handed him, he only said "She is immature". Its funny how all of us here on these forums dig deep into books of current trends and new discoveries on the psyche and a councelor will never go into that detail. I dont know if its laziness on their part or overthinking on our part. Or the unreliable narrator. I know for a fact no one has seen the face of my wife that I know.
Its hard for an IC to diagnose when people hide so well. Lying especially. Why go to a therapist if you dont disclose stuff is beyond me.
But even this diagnosis of Immaturity on her part may not be so simple. Looking it up online, it does display adults stuck in the young age emotionally where the world revolved around them, getting their way and clearly not empathizing with another person's POV.
Great job on the A+ certis. I passed my CCNA this past fall. Adding some Windows stuff. I left IT 13 years ago so I need a strong card going back in
B.D in December 2018 Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019 Divorced May 2019 H (me) 49 W (her) 29
