Yes, I bought Mort's program not long after my BD. And there is a lot of wisdom and logic in it. However, I think Mort's program is better suited to the situation where one spouse feels the other puling away. Once you get to BD it is too late for many of Mort's techniques. For example, date night. Most obstinate spouses are not interested in dating the spouse they just BD'd.

I also think that you have to be careful with some of the techniques. Pursuit and pressure DO NOT work in in 99.99999% of post-BD sitches. But some of his wisdom on the thoughts and feelings of the walkaway (obstinate) spouse are spot on and insightful.

I got value from his program listening to the material, doing the exercises. The Q&A was outstanding.I started doing the talk charges right away. I worked touch charges in, subtly. Date night was saved until after our MC got us to a point and suggested it. I do like how he kept hammering home that that there were no guarantees. That you couldn't control the obstinate spouse and that you had to focus one what you can control, yourself. But you have to be careful because some of the tactics are pursuit and pressure.

I used some of his tactics but really skewed more towards DBing. Where they agreed I absolutely did them Where they deviated I trended more towards DBing.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018