g, likely her post D life isn't living up to the fantasy it was in her head. And she is lashing out in frustration at that. At this point, it isn't about you. You are her history. Since she is unhappy with her present she has to drag up her history to make her feel better about her situation.
Just keep DBing!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
