Our D who is just 2 does not understand what is happening and when she does, the pain that I have today will be compounded and my helplessness in not giving my child what she deserved in terms of a complete family like other kids will bite me in the face. Just venting.
One of my girls is also 2, and doesnt get it, unlike the older two who understand more. In some ways, its better as this hasnt affected her. What i will say don't focus on what you can no longer give her ( i also never ever saw my family coming apart either ) - Focus on what you can give her . Focus on making the most of the time you have together and give her all your attention. You may only see her for 1/2 time now, so make your focus - QUALITY TIME - not quantity.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
