No, this really wasn't ever totally about sex. If you don't believe me, you are missing the point.
All with respect and no over dramatized conjecture, W said she didn't see going back.
As can be imagined the discussion morphed into an R talk. I pointed out much positive that I felt had transpired without sounding like a sales pitch. W expressed fears and demonstrated a real composure of consideration. I also added that I didn't see continuing in a sexless R. That it had an effect on me and how sex was a cohesion within Rs and with this revelation, I was going to have to do some thinking.
Some interesting points: At one point W seemed very sad and I asked what she was thinking. She asked what would happen to D16 if she died tomorrow. She also expressed that sometimes she still gets very mad at me. W said she wanted the freedom to go and live as she wanted. I asked why she couldn't do this within the relationship. No answer.
Anyway, I'm still processing this info.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
