the further you detach, the less you begin to care about the lies.
My WW lied a lot before it got physical. Once it became a PA, it was a whole new ball game. She left the house 5 nights a week to see the OM, always lying. She started to "stay at her mums" at the weekend - she never admitted about the OM, but towards the end i had gone past caring.
She has him staying over and my 3 girls ( well the elder 2) dont understand it, but its none of my business.. As the vets on this board say, you can only control YOU and what you do - some make the most of the time with your D, as children grow up soooo quick.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.