So puzzling over what to do. Fathers day up and coming, I offered wh last week to swop weekends so that he gets to spend the weekend with the kids, said he would get back to me on that. Hasnt and know I have made plans with the kids for the weekend. I can offer for wh to eat with us on the Sunday, but would that be classed as pursuit?? I know how I felt on mothers day and got to spend it with my kids which I appreciated. Gifts are made and are from the kids, not me. Just dont want to come off looking like the bad guy again, but I dont want to give up my time with the kids at the weekend