IH,

You better get used to it because your son is 1. My ex texted me last night and guess why? Because she wanted something. Me to buy my son shorts. If she could get the kids Sunday for awhile to see papa and if I had any questions for her to ask my son’s teacher she is meeting with tomorrow. 90% of your communication will be because someone want something from the other. The other 10% is going to be FYI communications. You’re unlikely to get any “what can I do for you texts”.

I giving you my opinion that’s all I can give. Not only are you bitter about your W you’re bitter against pretty much all women in general. When two people are happily married they don’t get divorced. Those are the facts. Accept that this is how she feels now and that she feels what she’s doing is best for her.

Learn and grow from your mistakes. That’s the only way we get better.