J9 - We can't help but wonder / be worried about how an ex will respond. What I keep trying to remind myself is that their reaction changes nothing and isn't one worth responding to or worrying about. I'm not doing too well on that. For 90+% of us here, it was them and their actions that deliberately ended the marriage and if they're not happy about the results - well that's just too bad.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
