Me and my ex do not share that type of info with each other. I would not have told ex, because I do not want him knowing anything about my life. He is basically cut out from me - He finds little tidbits about my life through my son - births, deaths but not through me. I treat him as a paycheck and someone I’m forced to ask for permission from when i want to take son on a vacation. I would not want him to think im telling him about a bf because I want him to feel jealous. I think he would think that and I don’t want to give him anything.