OK, so I texted him to say I was sorry he was stressed about work. And that I've been hit by a truck full of hormones and am not in a place for any serious talks tonight, I don't mind meeting up to have fun though but he can cancel if he wants to. Tonight is definitely not a good time for an R talk, for either of us. I don't regret putting in the boundary about my house though, that needed doing no matter how much pushback I get.
