So I am talking to 2 really nice guys right now and meeting up with 1 in the near future. After several days of texting, one of the guys commented on how nice my pics were and now I’m just hoping they are accurate. I love the compliments and flirting though and I know how little meaning it should have when you haven’t even met the person. I’m conscious of love bombing though. And I wonder if he’s a bit too into me before meeting. The other guy is someone that raised his kid on his own and I love that he’s a teacher and coach and seems to love kids and parenting.
All in all, I’m just surprised at how nice and friendly and forthcoming guys can be. I tend to be more reserved and distant. Probably because of ex husband.
I also know I can’t jump into anything exclusive in the beginning which is my tendency. My other tendency is to go for guys using logic instead of chemistry. And that logic has not worked out for me in the past. The texting is definitely adding chemistry though and my LL is words of affirmation. Which guy 1 is good at.
I’ll keep everyone updated.
Ginger that doesn’t surprise me. Some men write such creepy things! Too bad that guy didn’t show what he was about prior to meeting up with him.
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