When I told them she had a son and his age they giggled. They have also not seen me be affectionate towards any woman since their mom left over 2 years ago so I do suppose they will be observing. I think it will be a little weird for me initially as well and I assume the same for the Dr. as her son is in the same boat. It will definitely be a feeling out period for the both of us.

In many ways though my XW has absorbed the burden of most of it since she introduced her BF to them over a year ago. They should be used to it by now since they have spent time with them.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018