I responded to dilly in her thread. However, I have to shout a loud "AMEN" to what AS posted here. LBSs should get into IC, in my opinion, THE DAY AFTER BD. Moving forward healthy and happy is the most important thing.
We've had posters here that bucked that. "I don't have time." "I can't afford it." "I don't like counseling." Where there is a will there is a way. Further, you cannot afford NOT to deal with this in a proper way.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018