oohh! Yeah. I didn't know that was the timesplit with the Dr and her ex with their son. I can see that being a sensitive issue with the girls - maybe a bit more so when they're older. I know your girls are the same ages as my kids and I think you have some time to get them to a place of stability and acceptance with that. But I think take the challenges you may have now with the girls and the Dr, rather than borrowing problems from the future. I don't think you can completely avoid it, but maybe you can mitigate it.