Like Maika said, hopefully your XW won't flip out since she's had a bf for awhile. I just don't understand that. I mean, I'll admit, I initially got upset when I found out my XH had a girlfriend, but I was upset not that he had someone, but that he'd already started seeing her while we were still married and he'd lied to me on several occasions about her existence. But, he's her problem now, bless her. LOL
I'm glad you told your girls. Kids are intuitive, even when they are young and I'm sure they see that their dad is happy and that makes for happy kids. Sounds like everything is going really well.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids