A simple:

"That doesn't work for me, I have other plans for my leave. You will need to make alternate arrangements."

Do not get into the whole "if I was your H......" That makes you look small and petty. Trust me, she will get the difference between being a married couple arranging things vs. D'd parents making arrangements without you having to connect the dots for her.

Last edited by Steve85; 06/10/19 06:14 PM.
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