Quick update, just to note:

Saturday morning my W asked me if I thought that she wanted to spend all her weekends alone (as in me busy again!). Before I could answer she stated that she didn't want to be alone!!

Conversation ended there as kids were around.

Well that was clear what she doesn't want. I Wonder what she does want. I am starting to get curious about my own situation, as I mentioned in my last post.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together