Actually, I disagree. And if he wants to feel loved by me doing housework then living in the same house would be a start. I wonder if it was a f*&^ you because I went away with friends for the weekend actually. He had 3 people over by the look of it, he didn't tell me either before or after. I can probably guess who they were (he doesn't have many friends, and not round here). I won't bother asking the kids. But he left 4 wine glasses out, 6 empty bottles of wine and some beer bottles. I think he was definitely marking his territory, we rarely entertained before and when we did he would be the one organising it. He hated me asking my friends over so we only had our joint (actually his originally but then our joint) friends over. Well that won't happen any longer. I am beyond angry. How dare he treat this place like his home only when I'm not here? I won't do anything hasty, but this is definitely a lamb and lipstick moment.
