dillydaf, I tend to post in men's threads only because I can relate much better to a LBH than I can a LBW. To help a LBW more I feel I would have needed to have been a WAH at some point, but I never have been. Obviously there are differences based on gender, whether we like to admit it or not.

Also, please go easy on IH. My guess is that he is jaded due to dealing with his WAW. My guess is that most of his ranting is due to the pain and hurt from that experience. Bitterness is clearly something we LBSs can deal with in a myriad of directions. Pain is pain, and IH ranting occasionally, I think, is his outlet for trying to reduce his pain.

Anyway, back to Destroyd sitch, Destroyd, I see you moving to a much healthier place in your recent posts and I think that is to be commended.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018