I get your hesitation. I really really do. I imagine that is the reason that there is a big gap in the age range of men who have shown an interest. Younger men have the same vision of the future as you (home, kids, dog), but feel that is something to worry about when they are 'grow up' (i.e. in their 30's). I was the same at that age. I do get older men too but they are significantly older and looking for someone to retire with. I am not looking for forever (so older men are out) and I am not looking for casual (which is what the younger men seem to have in mind) so, right now, am stuck between a rock and a hard place. Limbo, but now a different sort.
Anyway, I have pretty much rejected everything that has come through in the last three days but will keep the profile up on the off chance someone suitable comes along. I'll give it till the end of the month.
I am going to Peru next year. Planning on climbing a mountain . Was thinking Feb. Neff - any good that time of year?