My lamb and lipstick moment made me hoot with laughter. I think that's my new favourite board phrase Yes, I really think it might be. I know I've kept saying that I'll stop him cake eating, but this behaviour was beyond the pale. The kitchen wasn't really that terrible, but it was all HIS stuff, all his wine bottles and dirty wine glasses. And he leaves them out at our other place for me to dispose of too, it's like he's rubbing in the fact that he's socialising without me and has chosen wine over wife. Talk about symbolic. And his dirty washing, he also has a load of dirty washing at our other place too, I've left it, it'll probably be nice and mouldy by the time he gets back there. Fine by me. I'm no longer his skivvy. The WORST thing about all this too is that whenever he R talks me, he gives a 'reason' for leaving as me not caring enough to keep the house clean and tidy. Funnily enough, without him around it's a load more clean and tidy with a load less effort. And yes, I did indeed use all the swear words in my extensive lexicon
I don't know what my next move is. I am exhausted beyond belief with lack of sleep and I'm a bit hormonal too, now is not the time to make any rash moves. I'll sleep on it. I'd arranged to go out with him tomorrow night, now I'm not too sure, I'll see how I feel tomorrow. I think I might say that I need to do some serious thinking. I also need to do some serious thinking about my next career move, whether I might even move to a different area after this work finishes at the end of the year, all these sorts of things. I feel quite excited by the prospect actually. My friend I went away with was encouraging me to work out what I want to do with my life (she's in a related field, albeit she is single and a workaholic so not a great role model lol), and I can see lots of exciting stuff in my future. Like I say, I think H has done me a bit of a favour disrespecting me so much, it's certainly not going to continue.
My IC: good point, yes I'll do that. Maybe he'll ask me what I need, perhaps I need to think about that too. I know I have a tendency to ramble and sometimes to come in wanting to talk about one thing and getting highjacked into something else, and yes I know that might be me trying to avoid harder stuff, perhaps. I did hear a podcast about that book, it was very interesting!
Yes, I really think it might be. I know I've kept saying that I'll stop him cake eating, but this behaviour was beyond the pale. The kitchen wasn't really that terrible, but it was all HIS stuff, all his wine bottles and dirty wine glasses. And he leaves them out at our other place for me to dispose of too, it's like he's rubbing in the fact that he's socialising without me and has chosen wine over wife. Talk about symbolic. And his dirty washing, he also has a load of dirty washing at our other place too, I've left it, it'll probably be nice and mouldy by the time he gets back there. Fine by me. I'm no longer his skivvy. The WORST thing about all this too is that whenever he R talks me, he gives a 'reason' for leaving as me not caring enough to keep the house clean and tidy. Funnily enough, without him around it's a load more clean and tidy with a load less effort. And yes, I did indeed use all the swear words in my extensive lexicon 