Brilliant. And what a fantastic title! I'm glad that you're doing this, but not out of anger or as a bid to get him back, just recognising he's not capable of stepping up right now. I would actually quite like to punch him for the whingeing about having 3 weeks off and being stressed. If he keeps behaving like a petulant child he might find that's really not attractive at all and you'll not want him back anyway...