I met one person for coffee. Turns out he was a total perv doing a quick once over to see if I had nice feet and I was suitable for a sexual relationship that happened between the houses of 10am and 2 pm on Saturday's. But I digress .
I do like the idea of an activity that is an ice breaker. May my hatchet guy may have not ended up to be quality, it was the perfect first date activity. I think doing something helps. I went to a Mets game on a first date. There was no attraction, but we enjoyed the game.
And I do agree to meeting fast. Better to find out there was no attraction early on rather than later. Or you don’t want to build something up in your mind and find out it wasn’t anything like you imagined
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.