Hey LH,

From what I thought cake eating was when a spouse wants to keep the husband around to do husbandly things and at the same time have a new love interest.

This interaction was the only this week. Lasted about 20 minutes. The majority of the time was spent discussing son. She asked me inside for Son to show me something. Once she changed subjects to questions about my personal life I told her it wasn’t her business. I did her no favors. Did nothing husbandly for her. She asked me to stay; I left.

I guess if it’s considered cake eating to have a short conversation then I’m guilty haha. I understand the idea that you think I shouldn’t have given her a chance to talk to me at all but Idk I don’t really see how I was feeding her cake, thanks for the reply.

Last edited by Hallzy9; 06/09/19 10:31 PM.

Me: 26 W:26
T:6 M:1 S: 1
BD: 3/26/19
DBing: 4/12/19
Separation: 5/20/19
I filed: 8/7/19