Sorry I may have got a bit confused with what was going on . All I an say is be the better option, whether it’s mlc or OM . I don’t know how you feel but validation from other women seemed to show my value and highlight what would be lost especially when the green eyes are there .
I completely agree that would be helpful but how did you go about that? I´ve been working out so hard since this started and I´ve never looked this good. A few weeks ago I was out with a friend at a bar and a very attractive girl started flirting with me. I showed her my ring but that made her even more interested. Especially since my friend told her I was going through a difficult time with my W. It became too much so we left but the whole time I was thinking that I wish my W would have seen that somehow. I have zero interest in other women at this point.
My W and I don´t do much besides dinners, movies and TV together these days. How could she me getting validation from other women?
Last edited by BenB; 06/09/1909:29 PM.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019
