Am I doing this right??

[Goddess8]

Again with the random text updates from H yesterday. School isnt going well. He is of course freaking out. Not sure what he expects me to do. I validated a little, but since his comments seemed more pitty party it was fairly limited. He had told the girls he had to study this weekend so "hanging out is probably a bad idea this weekend". I hope he's truely studying. Id say his consequences are his own if he's not, but the truth is if he lost his career after all these years it would be a huge blow to the family. In all honesty it's probably good we are all used to him being gone for deployments.

Overall I feel I'm doing pretty well with detachment. I talk about the situation with us but its with limited or no emotion involved. I might have a fleeting thought about him and the OW, buts its just that. I don't spare them two brain cells. Its easier to put them out of my mind now.

The kids are officially out for the summer. I've been GALing with a couple friends and the kids. A semi new friend asked me to a local pub tomorrow for a live band playing during the day. No idea what the music is gonna be like but sounds like a good change of pace. She's also trying to get me to join the rugby team...