So so new to this :(

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Hi Nyla

DnJ said it all



You did great not reacting to his "denial" and lack of willingness to take any responsibility

What helped my D at age 12 when her dad left(she is almost 24 now) was sitting with her at the end of the day and just listening to her
..This actually began a great connection with us and we still talk everyday and she shares her life, her goals and dreams with me and her pains

Just listen to her and try to say nothing, just nod and be quiet--validate her life and pain and nod

My xh never wanted to talk about anything either-and many

hang in there