I'll have to read it again when I get a chance. (I'm at work.)
Honestly, I probably could forgive her. I just don't know if I want to. See, I believe that forgiving her lets her off the hook. (I know, that's the wrong way to think.)
But, I also know that forgiving her matters zero to her or anybody else. It only matters to me.
More work to be done.
As for my journey, I love who I am today. I'm far from the person I was when I came here in 2011. And for that, I'm thankful.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13