Divorce is final (thread #4 - the last?)

[KevinIn]

Your post gives me strength. My D moved through very quickly and I am still coming to terms with it. On the other hand reading your post makes me realize it is like ripping off a band aid. Hurts a lot now but probably good in the long term. The thing I need to get over is hope for recon and remarrying her for the sake of the kids and family


If you have any advice for me on my sitch (http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2849990#Post2849990) please let me know. I can use all the help I can

I'll try to find some time this weekend to read up on your situation. looking back, I do wish I would have just ripped off the Band-Aid instead of let it linger for over 2 years. There are probably benefits to both approaches. It did take me 2 years to get rid of the hope that we can reconcile and get back together for the sake of the kids and family. That hope is completely gone now.

Take care and good luck.