Can Bird,

I am so sorry that you are here. I am just a newcomer like yourself, so I am not going to give you any advice. But please know that you are not alone. There are so many of us out here suffering through this hell on earth. If I have learned one thing during this period of my life, it is empathy. There are so many people suffering in this world due to marriage problems, and we pass so many of these people every day without even realizing it. The best thing I have done so far is to reach out to a few very close friends and family members and created a support team to help me through this time. Many of these people live a far distance from me, but they are only a phone call away. And all of them are praying for me. I pray every day for the people on this forum. May God give you the peace and strength to get through this time as a better person.


M: 22, T: 27
Three Children
BD: 12/15/18