Yes, I totally agree that only he can fix himself.
I showed him the highlights of an andropause article, once, and he read it. It was during the first real conversation we had about things. He was bawling his eyes out, unsure of why he was having these feelings. That was the only time.
He has to figure out his path. Some wounds don't need bandages, they just need time to breathe.
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever