FS,

I think it would pull us further apart, but my main concern now is that my WAS/WW/mlcer has emotionally abandoned our marriage and family, is having an A, and has no interest in R, is likely to serve D very soon and I am the one who is taking the hit because I let her manipulate me and left the MH rather than her.

Maybe I just now need to take that on the chin, maybe not. I don’t know anything right now...

I know my primary concern should now be D9, but am unsure which path would be best for her right now. None of the paths are appealing...maybe that means I should do nothing right now. D is coming to stay for a couple of nights - I should probably just have the best time I can with her.

TH,

Thanks, You are probably right - leaving it and saying nothing is probably best for now.


This hurts like hell.


H41 (me), W43
M10, Together 16
S18, D9

BD - Jan 19
‘Temp’ S (I moved out) - Feb 19