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Re: What next.
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It would be good to get some perspective from another of the vets on this. Sandi, Cadet et al..
I know you’ve seen all this a million times before but this switch from the perspective of the waw/mlcer helps a lot.
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Just logged into her email. She knows I did password changed.
PA confirmed.
Jump back to the MH and kick her out of the MB? File?
Moving quickly!
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I really hate the idea that my NGS has just enabled her PA and I really want to stop being someone who reacts rather than leads here.
I’m am unbelievably tempted to walk around there with an overnight bag and say I’m moving back in.
Help. Please.
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Re: What next.
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Apologies for the stream of consciousness...
One of the only stipulations of our ‘temporary seperation’ was not to see anyone else during the time period.
This agreement has been broken. I am within my rights to now move back in and not feel bad.
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Re: What next.
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Sorry to hear Rooney. I would suggest taking some time to calm down first before you do anything. You are angry right now and dont want to do anything that you will regret later. I know it is hard but wait a day for your emotions to calm down.
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Thank you, xH..
My shoes are on, my bag is next to me. Please, Lord help me here...
Cannot be treated in this way, she probably knows that I now know and that her lie has been destroyed.
I moved out to ‘be strong’ for her - it was her who should have moved out. I have enough proof to say as much.
The path I take *right* now will define he next 10 years of my life.
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She should go to him and I should be with my family.
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I’m on my way.
Is this a bad idea? Should just hit something instead?
Help!
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Unless I move back *now* I imagine she will file when I’m elsewhere anyway.
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Rooney - I am inexperienced here but would say hold off, take a breath, don't do anything out of anger. Hopefully the vets here can give you advice.
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