Complex WW and/or MLC #3

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Not to mention that I need to give a lot of credit to DB'ing... I was worried for a while but I think me making the decision to have her move out, going NC immediately, focusing on my 180's, and GAL all significantly helped her realize the loss relatively quickly. Also, I've said from the VERY beginning that this sitch was a little different. Was never 100% sure I was right - but with the limited list of issues at BD (and how easily they could be fixed) there is a part of me that is not SUPER surprised. We had some issues in our relationship for sure but it never really felt like the 'punishment fit the crime" in our circumstances. The big question is.. how/why she was able to go so extreme in her actions if what I say is correct and it wasn't really that bad?

I'm also becoming more and more convinced (99%) that she has not gone GGW or even PA in a while. I get the feeling there might have been some form of PA right after she moved out, but I'm getting signs that she has really been taking some time to her self - In other words I don't think she is playing both sides right now.