Hello Gerda

I have been reading along. I have also been working and very busy, so no posts for a few days.

Job and HaWho have really hit the nail on the head, such good and wise advice.

Originally Posted by Gerda
What I hate most is I do not want to be that woman who says those things or does those things. I feel like he is able to make me be the thing he thinks I am.

What do I say about feelings? smile

Feelings are fleeting. Let them flit away.

Gerda this will pass. You know you are not what he says or thinks you are. I felt the same way in my situation. Some time and distance from him and things will look so much better and brighter. You will be amazed my dear friend.

Originally Posted by Gerda
And DnJ, I am making that butter tart slice and the one I can't spell...

LOL!

I was being pretty sophisticated when I typed Nanaimo Bar, which I had to google. smile I just usually call it chocolate slice. Haha.

Take care.

Oh, and remember H is crazy and there is nothing you can do about it.

DnJ


Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.