Ok. That does help J.

I’m not intentionally delaying responses to create intrigue. I’m just a bit overwhelmed and tired. How do people have time for this? It’s hard for me to work up playfulness for strangers on the internet.

I feel a lot less confident this time around and I’m not sure why. Tomorrow I will write back to the guy I liked the most. He complimented my profile with specific details and complimented my smile. His profile was well written as well. I notice a lot of guys do that and maybe it’s a way to comment on a physical attribute without crossing the line? I think it’s a good idea if mixed in but not the sole message.

I guess to my advantage is I don’t feel like I want it all that bad. It’s almost like something for me to do and think about other then my ex husband.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer