I agree 100% on the zero communication. I just moved out. My EXWW (D went through in less than 2 months) wanted to come by. I told her no. Why would I want her in my house?
I have zero to say to my EXWW. Her choice was keep me as her H or nothing and she elected the nothing option, so I have moved on and I will respect that. I now have my own home, still have my Shelby GT350, my kids are with me half the time and this first two weeks I have taken time off of work to focus on myself and my kids.
My gorgeous girlfriend will be here tomorrow to spend a week with me. Life is good. Life is beautiful. Looking forward to getting fully into the swing of GAL on my own.
There will be no communication with my EXWW because there is no reason, my kids are old enough that I can speak directly with them and D16 can drive her and S12 back and forth between houses.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019