Well, I'm proud of myself today. Whilst driving to and from my house today I twice passed H driving his car. On both occasions he was stationary allowing traffic (me) to pass. I flashed and raised my hand in greeting. Nothing in return. Twice. Very obviously ignored. No way he didn't see me and the car I drive has a private reg. He's one of those people who knows everybody's cars via their reg plate.
I was fuming at being ignored when I had been polite and friendly. My thumb was itching to send a text telling him to grow up. I didn't. Therefore proud.
There is a question as to why he was driving past my house. It would be a definite detour for him.
So, I mentioned it to 1 son in passing who told me that when son had been staying last week he had seen his Dad's car slow down outside the house a couple of times and then drive off. Son's car was in the drive and mine wasn't, so he could easily have called in to see son (who does maintain some contact) Very strange.
So, I mentioned the ignoring thing and son then told me that when he met up with his dad last week, he looked really awful. He was slow and ponderous, couldn't maintain conversation and looked really old. Son commented that dad's skin was really awful and almost crusty. He said 'I could've mistaken him for Grandpa' (who is 90)
Son said he may not have been ignoring you deliberately because I really don't think he knows what planet he is on.
Now, perhaps I should be worried and concerned. But I can't pretend. I can remember the number of times I was screamed at about the OW "she's the only thing that makes me feel alive"
So why do you look half dead then?
I don't want anything really bad to happen to him, but I am not upset that he's obviously not 'living the dream'
On the other hand, if something bad is going to happen to him, let it be before we Divorce and split the assets.
